According to my friend, the answer to the question of “Is sex overrated?” is “Depends on who’s doing it.”
His answer confused me until he explained further. It’s overrated if your partner is bad in bed, underrated if your partner is good.
That’s one way of looking at the question I never considered.
I don’t know if it’s a guy thing, or I’m weird, or he’s weird. When pondering the issue of sex, I think of it more as a culture thing. How people use sex as a currency, how some people can’t get enough of it, how life is really about the pursuit of sex.