A word of thanks after the flame war

After a few amusing days of heated discussion over my post: “Ladies, stop getting seduced by pickup artists“, the dust has finally settled.

It’s peace and happy harmony once more in Sheylaraville!

Not that I want to stir any more shit by writing a followup post, but there are individuals that I need to thank.

Firstly, for leaving a comment in the post and supporting my blog, I want to thank:

Miss Loi, xinyun, arzhou, a_x, Shu Yen, dead_cockroach, Ethan, Sham, JayWalk, shardz, Jason Geek, aig, sylv, Pingping, yongwei, Jesta, Alex, K, Fish, kucing robot jantan

For pretending to be partial but actually disguising insults in subtext, thank you, Raken. (lol)

For exercising your sense of justice and telling the hermaphrodite karen off, but in the process getting yourself flamed by him/her, my utmost thanks to:

Daryl Tay, Jacelyn, The Goonfather, modchip, starm|st, clauds, Anlooo, Candice, Mince Pye, aiyahwhatever, Ruok

And to the beautiful few who liberally sprinkled glowing testimonials of me and the Goonfather in your arguments, thank you deeply. You’re the best! I’m touched by your show of friendship!

Rachel, Wang Wang, Minou, Chong

Finally, to the three very special cousins in my life, with whom I grew up, played and bickered endlessly. Thank you for jumping to my defence. I didn’t even know you read my blog (except Monster)! You’ll always be my bestest and dearest cousins!

Monster, HaLLoweeN, Joanne

Oh, wait, there is actually one more person I need to thank.

Thank you, karen, for providing me and my readers with two days of amusement. The selfless way you threw yourself into the line of fire is very admirable.

Alrighty, now, if you’re wondering, the answer is no. I’m not upset at all by the words uttered by karen the hermaphrodite.

I feel sorry for people who get off on indiscrimately insulting everyone that crosses their paths. They are bitter, lonely individuals who need our sympathy and help and love. There’s absolutely no need to get upset with them.

Nevertheless, I feel comforted and loved by all you people who rose to my defence. That is the silver lining in this absurd mess, and my life is all the better for it! Thank you again. Love you all.

26 thoughts on “A word of thanks after the flame war

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    Hmm….. I bet Karen will be back again for this thread. Anyway, why would anyone be affected by words made behind a PC? Why would anyone be afraid of a barking dog behind cages or door? Wanna frighten me, get out of the cage and bark into my face! This is a challenge from me to Karen. Anything said behind a PC, I will entertain you like I am entertaining a puppy. =) *woof woof*

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    hey girl

    a reader but not really a tagger. have been following the “karen” person and for a person who read all of ur archives (don’t worry me not stalker) :) i think u’re a nice person and def not all the crap the “karen” claims u are.

    anyway, it seems like everything has died down! and kudos to goonfather for taking all the comments in his stride. no wonder sheylara adores u. :D

    dunno what else to type. *lol* anyway, just hope to read more of your happy posts!

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    Hey Monster,

    You’re going to be my favouritest monster in the whole wide world! And anyone who messes with my monster…..You’ve the cousins to deal with! And Goonfather, that includes you! Nah, seriously, Goonfather is really nice. QY picked well! Can’t wait to see you guys again!

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    Wait a minute, there was a flame war going on??

    All along I thought was some very close friend of yours jokingly bantering with you. I kinda switched off like after the 2nd exchange and skim the rest of the comments.

    Talk about sleeping through a train wreck!!

    Usually I ignore flamers and trolls. Since it’s your blog, you do know how to use the delete comment button right?

    She can type type type all she wants but all you need to do is 1 click and it’s all gone.

    Lai lor. See who more stamina lor.

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    Stoopid busy week stole my time, I now only discovered this thread flame shitamajingaling like after the weekend. And after the EM.

    Shouldn’t I, like get some credit for showing Qiaoyun there are even cheat sheets for encouraging guys to learn how to overcome their fear of the Venus Species and how to impress them and take dating aka seduction aka i-am-looking-for-a-gf aka i-wanna-get-into-your-pants-tonite-but-am-totally-discreet-about-it onto a whole new level?

    *eyes blink big big*

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    xinyun: Yup, it usually is well in Sheylaraville. But once in a while, some entertainment is good! Haha!

    dead_cockroach: No, no. YOU’RE too kind! Hehe!

    modchip: Nope. I hardly think karen will dare to reveal himself/herself and I can’t be bothered to trace, either. :P

    Mince Pye: Hmm… being warm and fuzzy gives you and urge to make faces? Strange sort of pie you are!

    The Goonfather: Haha, karen has disappeared.

    shardz: :)

    fish: lol.. you came too late lah.

    Leaf: Thank you so much! It means a lot to me to have someone I don’t know say nice things about me and my blog. I appreciate that very much!

    Shu Yen: Haha.. hopefully not for a while. :P

    Wang Wang: *hugs back*

    arzhou: Heehee! Need to fit lots of people in it! ;)

    -=}{oT~dEv1L 666=-: Well, but what’s more important than language proficiency is having a kind and open heart. Don’t you agree? ;)

    Monster: What do you mean I’m “going to be” your favouritest monster? Aren’t I already your one and only favouritest monster??? :P I can’t wait to see you too. Miss you heaps and heaps!!

    Daryl Tay: Hahaha.. well, you shoulda come back and received your flame and flamed back for fun! ;)

    vinyarb: lol you do mean karen, of course.

    starm|st: HUGS!!

    JayWalk: Hahaha… I can’t believe you’d think that. Anyway, I didn’t feel the need to delete the flaming comments. Every comment, good or bad, makes part of the blog. It would be lopsided if I deleted stuff. And anyway, my readers feel entertained by the flaming. Only the best for my readers!! I only delete comments with explicit crude vulgarities which, fortunately, are few and far between.

    Minou: Awww… *sniff* Heart you a lot!! *hugs*

    chris: Why, does it mean anything?

    Nic: lolol. sorry. next time got show I’ll be sure to inform you in advance ok? :P

    Stan: Hahaha.. yes, credit goes to you for the crash course on PUA methodology. :P

    aig: Well, back to daily business! ;)

    clauds: Hahaha.. I guess most people won’t realise it cos people hardly go back to the same post after posting one comment on it. I usually don’t go back unless there was some interesting conversation going on in the comments!

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