Is it considered cognitive dissonance if, for example, I don’t like this person because he’s very irritating and I’m always thinking unkind thoughts about him although I don’t show it outwardly and just try to avoid him, but then he goes and does a nice thing like send me flowers when I’m sick, causing me to feel majorly guilty and wondering if I should try to stop disliking him?

I love this song.
Her Name is Alice (soundtrack from Alice in Wonderland)

(Click for YouTube video.)
I told my singing teacher I seldom listen to music because the songs I like (usually melancholic melodies) depress me. Yet, I can’t stop playing this track over and over.
I had a conversation with myself this morning when the alarm woke me up at 10 am. (Another vain attempt to normalise my bio clock.)
“Sleepy. Wanna sleep somemore. Zzz.”
“Ooh but 10am. Can order Macs breakfast!”
“Do I feel like eating Macs breakfast today?”
“Hotcakes and sausages!”
“I think I feel more like a Big Mac and fries.”
“Ok fine go back to sleep.”
Yay! Just found Jolly Shandy Lychee (which is rarer than Peach) at Cold Storage. Love! Jolly Shandy makes me jolly! =)

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Hong Kong Disneyland Favourite Moments #4

I think Goofy is the cutest! :)
(More Disney characters in full post coming up soonish…)
Hong Kong Disneyland Favourite Moments #3

How can anyone visit Disneyland without trying on Mickey Mouse ears at least once? =)
Hong Kong Disneyland Favourite Moments #2

Playing in hotel bathtub with Elyxia & Minou!
(More happy moments in full post coming up soonish…)
Hong Kong Disneyland Favourite Moments #1

Chicken Little dim sum for lunch! Awwwww…! =)
(More cute dim sums in full post coming up soonish…)
@shey
Oops !!!! I just found out that your birthday is on 23 July as my elder brother and my birthday is also 7 days away . :P
Hi,
I just wish to have a copy of the video you took of me giving my speech at “Singapore’s Biggest Halo Fan contest”. Can you please contact me when you are free and tell me how I could get a copy of it from you. Many thanks.
yours sincerely,
Leong Han Keow
A.K.A. Duelist
To call anyone or any organization, “stupid” is the kind of thing to say when a given person has no appreciation for kindness and diplomacy. We have within us, the ability to operate on a higher level than to use the word stupid. I have no interest in being a
part of attitudes that brand anyone as being egotistical and dull
in their approach to the world around them. To call anyone stupid is to judge them from the lofty position of an unnecessary and
erroneous and damaging attitude of selfish self importance.
I have no time for it because I am engaged in cleansing myself
of undesireable attitudes. That’s my comment. I wish you good luck
if you have an attitude of personal superiority.—Doug
Dear Sheylara,
I read your post on “Is the Singaporean Man A Wimp?”I do agree with you on that matter,the problem with SG men or wimps,the majority are sore losers,they don’t have a sense of purpose,direction,goals,the drive to succeed in life,i aint a wimp,i suffered from low-self esteem when i was a teen,i’m 31 now,studying @ London School Of Economics,this issue of Sporean men erratic behavior has been forlorn n a foregone conclusion.
You also wrote that if a guy likes you n vice-versa,he should just kiss u without having the need to ask.I have never kissed a gal in my life before,really,i am not kidding….either my church friends call me gay,i’m as straight as an arrow but i dun pierce a girl’s heart,i’ve never been out on a date,never danced with a girl,etc,etc….i leave it to you to decide what am i!
A little bit about myself,i’m an Anglo-Indian,my great granddaddy was a British officer in India,i was born in India,but i grew up in Spore,practically i’m a citizen,went thru NS like every other local male,i have experienced lots of things with my life,from near death experience to facing danger either in a ocean,rock-climbing,motor-bike racing,etc…
If you seriously think that wimpy guys can keep a nation safe,think again Princess Sheylara,i rather create Terminators or machines from the Matrix to keep mankind safe,if you believe in God,then hallelujah!
Sincerely,
JMP.
Hi Sheylara
I have a question about the RX8 which I would appreciate if you could forward to the Goonfather and see whether he can help. Does he know what the indicator light which is located above the battery indicator light and below the oil gauge, is for? I am referring to the one that looks like a colosseum – under normal circumstances, it lights up briefly when you first turn on the engine.
Thanks in advance for your and his help.
Hey Sheylara, just want to let you know that you look like a Hong Kong Star. Feel so good to see that bright smile of yours. You make my day…………Cheers@
@MANMAN – Well, how sweet is that! Thank you! :)
ur a hot babe
ummm paul your a pervert for saying that to her
Hi,
Just happen that i glance through your profile, jsut to say you really have a sweet smile… anyway i do have strong interest i feel it’s so peaceful over there dun you think so ? Quite shock your birthday is on 23rd july as mine falls one day before you hehe … nice knowing you by the way cheers feel free to contact via the e mail. cheers
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Sheylara! your such a dork! lol but in your case its a desirable trait.. weird huh?
Only discovered your blog tonight. I very seldom enjoy stuff like this but I literally chuckled out loud reading some of your posts.
Thanks for the laughs. Keep doin what your doin!
Hi Sheylara, would like to share with you about the upcoming Ultimate Street Fighter Challenge happening at Cathay Cineleisure Orchard on this Sat, 24 April.
This is a 3 weekends event leading to the launch of SUPER Street Fighter IV, exclusive on Xbox 360 whereby the grand winner will represent Singapore to take part in the Xbox 360 Cup SSF4 Asian Championship in Korea.
Hope to see you yah!
Check out the website on GIAHC-Global Initiative Against HPV and Cervical Cancer,
http://www.giahc.org/. Shobha Krishnan M.D., Founder and President of GIAHC is also the author of the award winning book The HPV Vaccine Controversy: Sex, Cancer, God and Politics- a very educational book on HPV diagnostics, disease consequences and the role of the vaccines http://www.thehpvbook.com/
hi!Sheylara i am jack here nice to meet u too i am single 29 yrs old i like to made single friend like u girl and are u free alone on sunday morning at 1 august 2010 at 9 am and i like to go to the sentosa siloso beach swimming, play beach volleyball, suntanning , do u want to meet me alone with my friend and my cousin ok pls contact me at 84466977 ok see u soon than
sheylara … hi can i ask where u buy the hamster cooling bed ? i reli very desperated … to have it for my hamster pls contact me asap
dont think of me as gay for commenting on this site but i was searching manga guidelines on google images and stumbled across your site, i was wondering where was your manga class was and if not in this country(uk)where can i find it in this country and is it for younger kids(10-13yr olds)
by uk i mean london :D
Hi Jason!
I’m from Singapore, so unfortunately I can’t help you! Have you tried googling to see if there’s a manga class near you?