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8 Comments » Maybe it’s my unconventional interests. Maybe it’s my reclusive nature. Maybe it’s a combination of both, plus an assortment of mysterious reasons.
I’ve always found it hard to even make friends, never mind BFFs (best friend forever). It’s a situation which has puzzled and saddened me for ages but I’ve begun to come to terms with it.
Let me start from the beginning.
Is it considered cognitive dissonance if, for example, I don’t like this person because he’s very irritating and I’m always thinking unkind thoughts about him although I don’t show it outwardly and just try to avoid him, but then he goes and does a nice thing like send me flowers when I’m sick, causing me to feel majorly guilty and wondering if I should try to stop disliking him?
I love this song.
Her Name is Alice (soundtrack from Alice in Wonderland)
(Click for YouTube video.)
I told my singing teacher I seldom listen to music because the songs I like (usually melancholic melodies) depress me. Yet, I can’t stop playing this track over and over.
I had a conversation with myself this morning when the alarm woke me up at 10 am. (Another vain attempt to normalise my bio clock.)
“Sleepy. Wanna sleep somemore. Zzz.”
“Ooh but 10am. Can order Macs breakfast!”
“Do I feel like eating Macs breakfast today?”
“Hotcakes and sausages!”
“I think I feel more like a Big Mac and fries.”
“Ok fine go back to sleep.”
Yay! Just found Jolly Shandy Lychee (which is rarer than Peach) at Cold Storage. Love! Jolly Shandy makes me jolly! =)
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Hong Kong Disneyland Favourite Moments #4
I think Goofy is the cutest! :)
(More Disney characters in full post coming up soonish…)
Hong Kong Disneyland Favourite Moments #3
How can anyone visit Disneyland without trying on Mickey Mouse ears at least once? =)
Hong Kong Disneyland Favourite Moments #2
Playing in hotel bathtub with Elyxia & Minou!
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Hong Kong Disneyland Favourite Moments #1
Chicken Little dim sum for lunch! Awwwww…! =)
(More cute dim sums in full post coming up soonish…)
My BFF becomes not so best adi…. My relationship with my gf actually affect my friendship. :(
Oh that’s quite sad. But I think that happens quite a lot. Heard many people talk about this.
Not everybody has just one BFF. Even I have a group of very close friends, but I wouldn’t be able to pick out just one best friend. As long as we have people whom we enjoy being with, and who care about us, I think that’s what really matters. :)
But… you have US!
@Sheylara: Sorry to hear about the virus… did you find out its origin?
Well look at it this way. If BFFs were “easy” to come by or find we wouldn’t value them as much and BFFs probably wouldn’t exist.
Great things are always to hardest to come by or they come to as a challenge :)
Thanks Monster!!!!
Very flattering to be featured in your blog. Yes, we do somehow care for each other telepathically. Thanks for being there always for me. Through the dark and trying moments of my life, you’ve been there! And yes, you were there for my great moments too! You were like the most beautiful bridesmaid ever! No one could ever beat you! Thanks for loving me unconditionally. It really means a lot to me that you never judged and love me the way I am. All my strangeness, weirdness and quirkiness, you took them all in stride. Thanks! Love you heaps and heaps!!! Miss ya too!
Awww, thanks for your awesome words, Monster!! You’re a lovable person, you know… it’s not hard to love you.. just ask all your other friends! ;) *HUGS*