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		<title>By: I Always Know Who I Love &#171; A Pack Of Lies</title>
		<link>http://sheylara.com/2007/06/why-would-you-want-to-have-children/comment-page-1/#comment-176283</link>
		<dc:creator>I Always Know Who I Love &#171; A Pack Of Lies</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 16:24:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: I Know Who I Love &#171; A Pack Of Lies</title>
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		<dc:creator>I Know Who I Love &#171; A Pack Of Lies</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 16:11:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: meg</title>
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		<dc:creator>meg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2009 05:54:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi,  i do understand what you are saying. All too often, i have often considered the vanity of life and its purpose for everyone. Everyone faces their own share of knocks and bumps in life. The day when i grow up is that i finally realise when i cannot change his circumstances or my past, the only thing i can do is that i can change my mindset. Its true, the purpose of life is somehow just to learn how to get up again after a fall, basically to overcome difficulties. And somehow, bearing a kid, seriously, though a natural order of human life, is primarily just to gratify the own desires of the parent. Realise that when parents talk about their new-born babies, its always how they feel, how they finally feel they are alive, their lives have a purpose finally and blah blah blah, its just all about themselves.

Ask ourselves this question, do our parents really understand us or do we really understand our parents? When we reach a certain age, they just take a supporting role at the back and we are left to ourselves to survive in the &quot;maze&quot;..

I love kids, and i guess its because of too much love, that we will actually consider so much, and want to shield others from this pain that one is bound to go through on earth</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi,  i do understand what you are saying. All too often, i have often considered the vanity of life and its purpose for everyone. Everyone faces their own share of knocks and bumps in life. The day when i grow up is that i finally realise when i cannot change his circumstances or my past, the only thing i can do is that i can change my mindset. Its true, the purpose of life is somehow just to learn how to get up again after a fall, basically to overcome difficulties. And somehow, bearing a kid, seriously, though a natural order of human life, is primarily just to gratify the own desires of the parent. Realise that when parents talk about their new-born babies, its always how they feel, how they finally feel they are alive, their lives have a purpose finally and blah blah blah, its just all about themselves.</p>
<p>Ask ourselves this question, do our parents really understand us or do we really understand our parents? When we reach a certain age, they just take a supporting role at the back and we are left to ourselves to survive in the &#8220;maze&#8221;..</p>
<p>I love kids, and i guess its because of too much love, that we will actually consider so much, and want to shield others from this pain that one is bound to go through on earth</p>
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		<title>By: MikeM</title>
		<link>http://sheylara.com/2007/06/why-would-you-want-to-have-children/comment-page-1/#comment-48187</link>
		<dc:creator>MikeM</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Feb 2008 19:33:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>All this coming from someone hasn&#039;t even lived 1/3 of their life yet.

As the Fray song goes: 

&quot;When you&#039;re older, you&#039;ll understand&quot;

I&#039;d say, you haven&#039;t seen the other side of the coin yet, but when you do you will feel very differently.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All this coming from someone hasn&#8217;t even lived 1/3 of their life yet.</p>
<p>As the Fray song goes: </p>
<p>&#8220;When you&#8217;re older, you&#8217;ll understand&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;d say, you haven&#8217;t seen the other side of the coin yet, but when you do you will feel very differently.</p>
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		<title>By: Mince Pye</title>
		<link>http://sheylara.com/2007/06/why-would-you-want-to-have-children/comment-page-1/#comment-19322</link>
		<dc:creator>Mince Pye</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jun 2007 06:21:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, I never played Populous... but I loved the MOO series, even kinda liked MOO3.

Anyway, you&#039;re one to talk, you&#039;ve played more Civ than me... I only played up to Civ 3, whereas the Goonfather has been exploding his Goon nation culture bombs in Civ 4 right?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, I never played Populous&#8230; but I loved the MOO series, even kinda liked MOO3.</p>
<p>Anyway, you&#8217;re one to talk, you&#8217;ve played more Civ than me&#8230; I only played up to Civ 3, whereas the Goonfather has been exploding his Goon nation culture bombs in Civ 4 right?</p>
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		<title>By: Qiaoyun</title>
		<link>http://sheylara.com/2007/06/why-would-you-want-to-have-children/comment-page-1/#comment-19261</link>
		<dc:creator>Qiaoyun</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jun 2007 17:43:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;Monster:&lt;/b&gt; That&#039;s great! I hope everything goes smoothly for you? Have heard that the adoption process can be quite tedious.

&lt;b&gt;Rachel:&lt;/b&gt; Haha, two more? You superwoman, you! I already can&#039;t imagine how you manage to do so well with a great career and two kids to boot! Ok, I suppose many women these days do. I take my hat off to you and others like you. ;)

&lt;b&gt;uglyfatchick:&lt;/b&gt; Life is complicated.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Monster:</b> That&#8217;s great! I hope everything goes smoothly for you? Have heard that the adoption process can be quite tedious.</p>
<p><b>Rachel:</b> Haha, two more? You superwoman, you! I already can&#8217;t imagine how you manage to do so well with a great career and two kids to boot! Ok, I suppose many women these days do. I take my hat off to you and others like you. ;)</p>
<p><b>uglyfatchick:</b> Life is complicated.</p>
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		<title>By: uglyfatchick</title>
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		<dc:creator>uglyfatchick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jun 2007 14:05:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>it&#039;s complicated.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>it&#8217;s complicated.</p>
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		<title>By: Rachel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jun 2007 08:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey, although I am a mum of 2, I do see where you are coming from. But I am not as pessimistic.. Sure, there are bastards and asshats in this world, we very quickly learnt how to deal with those haven&#039;t we? Also, despite having been thru some setbacks and sadness in my life, I still wouldn&#039;t end it for anything. I choose to see the blessings and ride out the pain. 

If possible, I would like to have two more kids if circumstances allow. Heh.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, although I am a mum of 2, I do see where you are coming from. But I am not as pessimistic.. Sure, there are bastards and asshats in this world, we very quickly learnt how to deal with those haven&#8217;t we? Also, despite having been thru some setbacks and sadness in my life, I still wouldn&#8217;t end it for anything. I choose to see the blessings and ride out the pain. </p>
<p>If possible, I would like to have two more kids if circumstances allow. Heh.</p>
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